I love her.... I'm just not in love with her anymore. I'm just not attracted to her any longer. We've lost the spark in our marriage. We lost the connection between us. It was just sex; it didn't mean anything. I was selfish; I didn't think. These are all-too-common excuses made in the aftermath of an affair-plenty of excuses made by lots of men after they have had to come clean about their affairs. I say "their" affairs because typically it is just that-theirs. Their wants take priority over their wives'. Their needs come first and the needs of the family second. So, is that it? Can we simply chalk it all up to boys being boys? Well, just as there are two people in that relationship, my guess is that there are two very different sides to this cheating story. Let us take a closer look and see exactly who is driving this runaway train.
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